What begins as a classic story of romantic infidelity quickly becomes something more nuanced and powerful: a conversation between two women who unknowingly shared the same partner. But instead of revenge, Raphaela offers empathy. In “Leave Him First,” the narrator speaks not to the man who broke her heart, but to the girl he cheated with – encouraging her to reclaim her worth before it’s too late.
The track’s delicate balance of melancholic vulnerability and quiet strength is what makes it unforgettable. It’s a reflection of Raphaela’s unique perspective – choosing compassion over conflict, solidarity over spite.
I started writing this song like I was confronting him, but it didn’t feel right. The moment I rewrote it as a message to the girl he cheated with, everything clicked. It’s about breaking the cycle – telling her, woman to woman, that she deserves better. That shift gave me a sense of empowerment I didn’t expect. It made the song feel more honest, more healing. – Raphaela
Born in Beirut and based in Ottawa, Raphaela brings together global influences and heartfelt songwriting in a sound that’s deeply personal, emotionally cinematic, and rooted in storytelling. Her musical foundation was shaped by her opera-singing mother and her father’s love of timeless classics, which laid the groundwork for her own romantic, introspective voice.
Raphaela’s previous singles – including “Fifth Street,” “South of France,” “Happy Endings,” and “Be My Hero” – have explored the emotional spectrum of love, loss, and healing. “Leave Him First” marks a significant turning point, bridging heartbreak with empowerment, and setting the tone for her upcoming debut EP.
The EP, which releases later this year, will celebrate the brighter side of love – the kind that follows heartbreak and reminds us why we still believe. With its mix of adult contemporary depth and dreamy alt-pop elegance, Raphaela’s work invites listeners to feel deeply, reflect honestly, and move forward with hope.
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